“I am constitutionally a martyr to boredom, but never in Europe have I been so desperately and degradingly bored as I was during the next four days; they were as black and timeless as Damnation; a handful of fine ashes thrown into the eyes, a blanket over the face, a mass of soft clay knee deep. My diary reminds me of my suffering in those very words, but the emotion which prompted them seems remote. I know a woman who is always having babies; every time she resolves that that one shall be the last. But, every time, she forgets her resolution, and it is only when her labour begins that she cries to midwife and husband, ‘Stop, stop; I’ve just remembered what it is like. I refuse to have another.’ But it is then too late. So the human race goes on. Just in this way, it seems to me, the activity of our ant-hill is preserved by a merciful process of oblivion. ‘Never again,’ I say on the steps of the house, ‘never again will I lunch with that woman.’ ‘Never again,’ I say in the railway carriage, ‘will I go and stay with those people.’ And yet a week or two later the next invitation finds me eagerly accepting. ‘Stop,’ I cry inwardly, as I take my hostess’s claw-like hand. ‘Stop, stop,’ I cry in my tepid bath; ‘I have just remembered what it is like. I refuse to have another.’ But it is too late.”
Evelyn Waugh, Remote People