{"id":30205,"date":"2018-06-25T12:47:10","date_gmt":"2018-06-25T16:47:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.artsjournal.com\/herman\/?p=30205"},"modified":"2018-06-25T12:48:50","modified_gmt":"2018-06-25T16:48:50","slug":"your-obituary-is-waiting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.artsjournal.com\/herman\/2018\/06\/your-obituary-is-waiting.html","title":{"rendered":"<em>Your Obituary Is Waiting<\/em>"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2018\/06\/22\/nyregion\/the-positive-death-movement-comes-to-life.html?hp&#038;action=click&#038;pgtype=Homepage&#038;clickSource=story-heading&#038;module=first-column-region&#038;region=top-news&#038;WT.nav=top-news\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"30218\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.artsjournal.com\/herman\/2018\/06\/your-obituary-is-waiting.html\/hey-death-becomes-them\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/www.artsjournal.com\/herman\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/hey-death-becomes-them-.png\" data-orig-size=\"629,71\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Hey! Death Becomes Them!\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/www.artsjournal.com\/herman\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/hey-death-becomes-them--300x34.png\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/www.artsjournal.com\/herman\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/hey-death-becomes-them-.png\" src=\"http:\/\/www.artsjournal.com\/herman\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/hey-death-becomes-them-.png\" alt title=\"Click for 'The Positive Death Movement ...' the \" width=\"629\" height=\"71\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-30218\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.artsjournal.com\/herman\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/hey-death-becomes-them-.png 629w, https:\/\/www.artsjournal.com\/herman\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/hey-death-becomes-them--300x34.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 629px) 100vw, 629px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2018\/06\/22\/nyregion\/the-positive-death-movement-comes-to-life.html?hp&#038;action=click&#038;pgtype=Homepage&#038;clickSource=story-heading&#038;module=first-column-region&#038;region=top-news&#038;WT.nav=top-news\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"30215\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.artsjournal.com\/herman\/2018\/06\/your-obituary-is-waiting.html\/gravestones-400x500\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/www.artsjournal.com\/herman\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/gravestones-400x500.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"400,501\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Gravestones\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/www.artsjournal.com\/herman\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/gravestones-400x500-240x300.jpg\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/www.artsjournal.com\/herman\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/gravestones-400x500.jpg\" src=\"http:\/\/www.artsjournal.com\/herman\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/gravestones-400x500.jpg\" alt title=\"Gravestones\" width=\"400\" height=\"501\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-30215\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.artsjournal.com\/herman\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/gravestones-400x500.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.artsjournal.com\/herman\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/gravestones-400x500-240x300.jpg 240w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><font size=2><em>\u200b(for Philip Larkin)<\/em><\/font><\/p>\n<p><font size=4><strong>My ego prefers<br \/>\nan obit published<br \/>\nby the NY Times.<br \/>\nBut anywhere else<br \/>\nwill do, even etched<br \/>\ninto a headstone<br \/>\nthat nobody reads<br \/>\nin a cemetery where<br \/>\nnobody ever goes.<br \/>\nI don&#8217;t know why<br \/>\nI care, but I do.<br \/>\nI don&#8217;t know why<br \/>\nanyone should care,<br \/>\nbut it\u2019s the custom to.<\/strong><\/font> <\/p>\n<p><em>\u2014JH<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u200b(for Philip Larkin) My ego prefers an obit published by the NY Times. But anywhere else will do, even etched into a headstone that nobody reads in a cemetery where nobody ever goes. I don&#8217;t know why I care, but I do. I don&#8217;t know why anyone should care, but it\u2019s the custom to. \u2014JH<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":30215,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[19,18,4,23,17],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-30205","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-art","8":"category-literature","9":"category-main","10":"category-news","11":"category-political-culture","12":"entry"},"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.artsjournal.com\/herman\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/gravestones-400x500.jpg","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pbvgEs-7Rb","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.artsjournal.com\/herman\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30205","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.artsjournal.com\/herman\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.artsjournal.com\/herman\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.artsjournal.com\/herman\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.artsjournal.com\/herman\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30205"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.artsjournal.com\/herman\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30205\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":30233,"href":"https:\/\/www.artsjournal.com\/herman\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30205\/revisions\/30233"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.artsjournal.com\/herman\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/30215"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.artsjournal.com\/herman\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30205"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.artsjournal.com\/herman\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30205"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.artsjournal.com\/herman\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30205"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}