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Five Stages Of Dying? Sure. Five Stages Of Grief? Not So Much.
"Perhaps the stage theory of grief caught on so quickly because it made loss sound controllable. The trouble is that it turns out largely to be a fiction, based more on anecdotal observation than empirical evidence. … In On Grief and Grieving, [Elisabeth Kübler-Ross] insisted that the stages were 'never meant to help tuck messy emotions into neat packages.' If her injunction went unheeded, perhaps it is because the messiness of grief is what makes us uncomfortable." The New Yorker 02/01/10
"Perhaps the stage theory of grief caught on so quickly because it made loss sound controllable. The trouble is that it turns out largely to be a fiction, based more on anecdotal observation than empirical evidence. … In On Grief and Grieving, [Elisabeth Kübler-Ross] insisted that the stages were 'never meant to help tuck messy emotions into neat packages.' If her injunction went unheeded, perhaps it is because the messiness of grief is what makes us uncomfortable." The New Yorker 02/01/10
Posted January 28, 2010 09:49 PM
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